There has to be clitoral stimulation for a woman to climax. Unfortunately, this may be more difficult than one would think because there are only a few nerve endings in the vagina. These nerve endings are located within the first two inches. If there were more nerves located throughout, childbirth would be so much more painful.
Since there are so few nerve endings, more than intercourse is needed to achieve an orgasm. However, sex can be much more orgasmic with positions specifically designed to stimulate the clitoris, such as the coital alignment technique.
The simple in and out motion of the penis during intercourse is not enough to reach a full orgasm. This is because the clitoris and G spot are not stimulated by the motion. Achieving orgasm during intercourse helps ensure the sex is more satisfying for both the woman and the man.
Coital alignment technique (CAT) is a way that can help women to reach orgasm more easily during intercourse, thus improving sex for both individuals. CAT has been proven to be the most effective way to speed up the woman's orgasm or create an orgasm that occurs at the same time as the man's.
It is important to note that this position is to give you the best orgasm. He may not reach his. In this case, simply switch to a new position that allows him more thrust and power after you have climaxed.
He may need to lean more to one side or the other to accomplish this. His weight should be partly on the woman's chest and partly on the object they are having sex on. It is important that the man relaxes the upper part of his body so the woman can wrap her legs around his waist. The woman will also need to entwine her legs around his so that she can stretch her legs until her calves reach his ankles.
In order to achieve the best stimulation, the clitoris needs to be stimulated from more than one angle. This can be achieved by having the man move his hips in various directions; the penis will be able to rub the clitoris from different angles to provide more pleasure.
Instead of simply laying there, the woman needs to move as well. She needs to rock opposite the man (if he is rocking up, she needs to rock down) to ensure effective stimulation. Unlike many other sexual positions where the woman's thrusting does not seem to do anything, it is a necessary part of the coital alignment technique.
Moving in different directions is not the only way to improve stimulation. Moving at slower pace or different rhythm will increase the stimulation as well.
It is not about how fast you can go; rather it is about the sensual stimulation. You will need patience as you learn how to properly use the coital alignment technique for the best orgasms. It is about the slow repetitive movements.